At our house we celebrate Christmas.
We celebrate with lights and trees and presents and baking and music.
We remember it's a day to celebrate Jesus' birthday, but He is a constant in our lives all year round too.
If that fact isn't obvious in my life, I have a serious relationship problem that one time a year wont make up for.
Of course as
I have learned not to get caught up in the hustle and bustle. Take it slow and easy.
For the most part, Lewy Body Dementia has been VERY selfish with Hubby and my time. Most of the time it seems impossible to leave our home and do anything that isn't a Dr visit or a one stop trip out to eat then home. Most of the time we get to combine those two things, Dr and lunch and home. Makes for an exhausting day for Hubby. IF I'm lucky, I can pop into the grocery store for a gal of milk if necessary while he waits in the car. I try not to make that a habit, only on a have to basis.
I've done most of my shopping on line over the year and last night I had the boxes with a smile (amazon) stacked on my table for wrapping
We are planning a Christmas Eve celebration at our home. I've specifically asked to be the host mainly because Hubby is more comfortable in his own home, even though he doesn't recognize it as such. He can choose to participate or not and I can stay as long as I like and enjoy the company of family I get to see once a year. I don't put expectations on anyone to join us for celebrations. They have lives apart from us, jobs and weather could prevent them from being there and I have said that any time we can get together is a time of celebration. They just may not have a tree in the living room when we do :)
This year is no different except, this year Hubby asked for a BIG Christmas. Now I'm not quite sure what that meant for him so I'll do the best I can to encourage the family to all come. I'll prepare a big dinner and we can all gather together under one roof. He misses his family.
I haven't done a lot of decorating but I did have a really good idea that I'm sure I stole from somewhere, I just don't remember where. I added my own flair so I don't think I get points off.
I made a Memory Tree for Hubby.
I printed off lots of family photos and clued them on various foam frames. I even bought some clear bulbs and inserted pictures in them. I left one empty. Just a symbolic gesture for me. I think it turned out really nice.
What a wonderful, wonderful idea - love it. Yes, which pictures is Hub interested in?ReplyDelete
I'm happy you like the tree idea.
I think it turned out really nice. I also think it means more to me than to Hubby LOL! his only response was, "Oh" and not even an excited oh at that LOL! :)
Hi, I popped in for a visit from the Caregiving Holiday Progressive Blog Party. Oh what a lovely idea to make a memory tree! And how smart to have the celebration at your home. We did that, as well, when my senior dad was on hospice and it really does work out well. He and my mom could easily rest in his room between visits with one or two loved ones at a time, while the rest of us visited all together. Praying for you!ReplyDelete
Love the tree idea. I need to make a photo album for my husband and plan on doing that next year after my current project. Am busy now dementia-proofing the whole house.ReplyDelete
Hugs and prayers,
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